This is the time of year you hear comments like these:

“I’m going to cut out all sugar starting January 1.”

“I sure didn’t do so good with my workout plan last year, but I’m starting the gym the first of the year.”

“I totally failed in my Read-through-the-Bible-in-a-Year plan. I always get stuck in Numbers.”

I’m being honest. I am no optimist. I have always professed to be anti-goal making, or more aptly, resolution-phobic. Yet, recent years of learning to preach to my own heart has revealed that what appears to be perfectionism and a fear of failing is really pride and self-sufficiency. I don’t want to set goals because I don’t want to either beat myself up to succeed, or to stress myself out when, in my own strength, I cannot find the consistency to accomplish what I set out to do. And, so….for many years, there you’d find me, on New Year’s Eve, the scrooge of all hope and determination for the new year.

I’m looking at it differently this year, although I’m still not making any resolutions, so to speak. I still have no solid plans to drop a certain amount of weight, or to stop all consumption of white sugar; but I do have plans to get up early again now that I’m not ill, work through a Bible reading/listening plan again, and deliberately look for ways to romance my husband–just to name a few.

Why the change? Why the desire to even verbalize some aspirations and desires for the new year?

I think it boils down to this:

Christ perfectly accomplished the work of righteousness for all those who believe; we set goals for more focus or greater discipline because it flows out of thankfulness for who we already are in Christ, not in order for us gain His approval. To put it plainly, we set goals to become more like who God’s already made us to be. Desiring to be more than we were last year, hoping to grow more disciplined, aiming to be more joy-filled and gracious….these are not merely optimistic thoughts. For a child of the King, this curriculum vitae is ours already in Christ, but is realized through obedience and perseverance.

And, so, may I encourage you to be blessed as you look forward to 2011? May I remind you that…

“Because of the LORD’s great love we are not consumed, 
   for his compassions never fail. 
 They are new every morning; 
   great is your faithfulness.” (Lamentations 3:22-23)

and so,

“…let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.” (Galations 6:9)

for,

“…if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” (2 Corinthians 5:17)

Be encouraged to start anew. Let’s not worry ourselves over success or fail, perfection or shame; those are not from Him. Let us, instead, fix our eyes on walking in the Spirit, growing in His likeness, and putting one foot in front of the other in faith, starting today.

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7 Responses to “"New Life" Resolutions”

  1. 1
    Beth says:

    So well said! Thanks for these straight thoughts!

  2. 2
    Jennie Rader says:

    Amen sister!! Amen.

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    Kim says:

    I greatly appreciate your thoughts on this and even more, our reminders from scripture on the reality of God’s love for us in Christ and our true identity in Him. I have had Galatians 6:9 posted in my kitchen because it is easy for me to grow weary as I become overwhelmed at times with the perceived slowness of my spiritual growth. Thanks for the reminder that the actuality of God’s promises can be realized more and more through obedience and perseverance. I also love…’put one foot in front of the other in faith, starting today.’ :) Happy New Year!

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    Kerry says:

    This is great Ruth! I have to say that I have felt the same way about new year’s resolutions, but what you’ve presented here is wonderful wisdom as opposed to the flight of fancy that most resolutions turn out to be. I’ll be passing this one on.

    Thanks!

  5. 5
    Abby says:

    I’m finally reading this…40 minutes into the new year. :) I’m encouraged, as always, and so thankful to have you as my sister, by marriage AND in Christ. Love you!

  6. 6

    Your honesty pricks my own prideful, self-sufficient heart. Thank you for your words laced with grace and hope. Now, to consider the new year…

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    Anna says:

    Amen!

    And I am so with you on the morning time and purposeful marriage!

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