It was about 17 years ago when I first noticed the man I have now been married to for almost 15 years. We were at a Christian collegiate organization’s small group function, and playing a get-to-know-each-other game. I don’t remember much about it except that each person had to share something he would NEVER do in his lifetime, and one thing that he’d love to do in his lifetime. As my turn was approaching, my mind raced with all the things I feared and would never be willing to do (um…pretty much anything that involves flying or bouncing in the air with a harness on!) I anxiously awaited my opportunity to sound like a sissy when Troy’s turn came up. I hardly knew him, and had not really noticed him until that night. He was one of those that hid from the limelight, so I’d spent much of my early months […]